If you really desire to find out if your spouse is cheating on you, the most important step you can do is to check yourself first. According to Ruth Houston, founder of InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of "Is He Cheating on You?- 829 Telltale Signs." There are certain points you can look at to test if you are capable of judging if your spouse is really cheating on you. If you are the type of person who has the following personality your suspicions may turn out to be groundless:
* You are doubtful by nature * You have a natural distrust of the opposite sex * You have issues with jealousy * You are emotionally vulnerable * You suffer from low-self esteem * You are paranoid * You have an overly active imagination
According to Houston if any of the statements above apply to you, it is unlikely for you to stay objective enough and properly assess the clues you find. For cases like this, it is advisable to hire a private investigator to watch on your mate and accumulate as many facts as he can.
In selecting a private investigator, you have to engage one who is licensed. As your aim is to get fair and impartial investigation, see to it that the private investigator you are dealing with has a good track record.